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Benjamin Shapiro Of Quaker St

December 3, 2018
by the gentle author

Ben Shapiro

In the East End, you are constantly reminded of the people who have left and of the countless thousands who never settled but for whom the place only offered a contingent existence at best, as a staging post on their journey to a better life elsewhere. Ben Shapiro has lived much of his life outside this country, since he left as a youth with his family to go to America where they found the healthier existence they sought, and escaped the racism and poor housing of the East End. Yet now, in later life, after working for many years as a social worker and living in several different continents, he has chosen to return to the country of his formative experience. “I’ve discovered I like England,” he admitted to me simply, almost surprised by his own words.

“I was born in the London Hospital, Whitechapel, in 1934. My mother, Rebecca, was born in Manchester but her parents came from Romania and my father, Isaac (known as Jack), was born in Odessa. He left to go to Austria and met my mother in Belgium. He was a German soldier in World War I and, in 1930, he come to London and worked as a cook and kosher caterer. I discovered that immediately after the war, he went to Ellis Island but he was sent home. In the War, he had been a radio operator whose lungs had been damaged by gas. He spoke four or five languages and became a chef, cooking in expensive hotels and it was from him I learnt never to sign a contract, that a man’s word is his bond. He had an unconscionable temper and by today’s standards we would be called abused children. I once asked my mother if she would leave him and she said, ‘Where would I go with three children?’ I have a younger brother, Charles, who lives in New York now and a younger sister, Frieda, who died three years ago in Los Angeles.

My parents lived in a flat in Brick Lane opposite the Mayfair Cinema, until they got bombed out in World War II. We got bombed out three times. My first school was the Jewish Free School, I went to it until I was four and the war broke out when I was five. My father was in Brick Lane when Mosley tried to march through in 1936 and the Battle of Cable St happened. He remembered throwing bricks at the police. When the war broke, we became luggage tag children and one of my earliest memories was travelling on a train with hundreds of other children to Wales. We lived with a coal miner’s family and, at four or five, he would come home covered in coal dust. His wife would prepare a tin bath of hot water and he would sit in it and she would wash him clean, and then we could all have supper.

Me and my brother were sent back to London when the Blitz was in full swing, but my sister stayed in Aylesbury for the entire duration of the war and the family wanted to adopt her. When I returned with her fifty years later, she met the daughter of the family, her ‘step-sister’ – for the first time since then – and they recognised each other immediately, and fell into each other’s arms.

In London, the four of us lived in a two bedroom flat and my brother and I slept together in one bed. My parents talked Yiddish but they never taught me. In the raids, we took shelter in Whitechapel Underground but my father would never go. He said, ‘I’ve been through one war – if I’m going to die, I’ll die in my bed.’ My father gave me sixpence once to go and see ‘For Whom The Bell Tolls’ at the cinema, but we got to the steps just as the siren sounded and I waited thirty years to see that film.

Then I was sent off again, evacuated to a Jewish family in Liverpool. On the train there, I met a boy and we decided to ask to be billeted together. We were eight or nine years old and we slept together and, every night, he wet the bed. So we had to hang out our mattress and pyjamas every day to dry them, they didn’t get washed just dried. Once Liverpool became a target for bombing, I got sent home again. After the war, he contacted me and said, he’d had an operation to correct his bladder.

I have distant memories of being sent away again to  the countryside, to Ely.  When we got to the village green at Haddenham, a man came up to me and asked, ‘Are you Jewish’ and I said, ‘No’ so he said, ‘You can come and live with me then.’ All the children in the school knew I was Jewish and asked ‘Where’s your horns?‘ but I was well cared for and didn’t want to leave in the end. My father never visited or wrote letters, I think it was because he had been in World War I and he was familiar with death, and he could have been killed in the Blitz at any time. If he died, I would have stayed. We were always well fed and I have a theory that my father sent them Black Market food.

Towards end of the war, we were housed by London County Council in Cookham Buildings on the Boundary Estate. I remember looking out of the window and seeing German planes coming overhead. There was flat that was turned into a shelter but we all realised that it would not protect us and, if a bomb dropped, we should all be killed. Above us, there was an obese woman with two children and she never got to the shelter before the all clear sounded.

Our flat was damp due to bomb damage and I caught Rheumatic Fever, and was admitted to the Mildmay Mission Hospital and was at death’s door for two months, and then sent to Greyshall Manor, a convalescent home. After that, we qualified for rehousing and we were the first tenants to move into the newly-built Wheler House in Quaker St in 1949. It was comfortable and centrally heated and we had a bathroom. From there, at fourteen years old, I went to Deal St School. It was where I first experienced racial intimidation and bullying, so I told the teacher and he said, ‘You’re a Jew, aren’t you?’ Eventually, I became Head Prefect, which gave me carte blanche to discipline the other pupils.

During the years at Wheler House, I became friendly with the bottling girls from the Truman Bewery who walked past at six in the morning and six at night. I knew some of the Draymen too and they let me feed the horses. Soon after we moved in, my father wouldn’t give me any pocket money, he said, ‘You’ve got to earn it.’ I went down Brick Lane and enquired at a couple of stalls for a job and I had a strong voice, so a trader said, ‘I need a barker,’ and, for about a year, I became a barker each weekend in Petticoat Lane, crying ‘Get your lovely toys here!’ I was opposite the plate man who threw crockery in the air and next to the chicken plucker.

I worked in the City of London as a junior clerk in Gracechurch St, near the Monument, but I feel – if I had stayed – I would still be junior clerk.

The lady next door, she had a friend from America and she sponsored my brother to go there. So then we all wanted to go and, on June 6th 1953, we went down to Southampton and took a boat to New York and then travelled to Los Angeles. It was for health reasons. My mother had been unwell and my father said it would be a better life, which it turned out to be. I was seventeen years old.”

c.1900, Odessa – My father Isaac is sitting in the centre, he was born around 1896 and left in 1906, during the last great pogrom, to go to Vienna

c. 1920,  London – My mother Rebecca is on the right with her sister on the left. Her parents were known as Yetta & Maurice

Ben on the left, aged seventeen years old, photographed with his family on the boat going to a new life in America in 1953

Ben and his family were the first people to move into this flat in Wheler House, Quaker St, when the building was newly completed in 1949

15 Responses leave one →
  1. Glenn permalink
    December 3, 2018

    Lovely human interest story. Great to hear about life in the east end.

  2. Barbara Elsmore permalink
    December 3, 2018

    Welcome back! – very pleased that you have chosen to return.

  3. Jamie S permalink
    December 3, 2018

    Incredible story… Thank you for sharing

  4. Derek Smith permalink
    December 3, 2018

    I learned of this blog only this morning. My introduction was to read of Ben. It brought tears to my eyes. Like Ben I was born in 1934 in the Commercial road, Adler Street. My mother worked for a Jewish tailor in Adler street, I remember Mr Myer teaching me to sew buttons on to a square of cloth. I remember the German bombers going over, the air raid shelter in the tube station, being evacuated, coming back and being bombed again, evacuated again, the bullying at school – Vaccies go home! I live in Scotland now but my memories of London were awakened this morning. My best wishes to Mr Shapiro. Thank you thank you thank you.

  5. aubrey permalink
    December 3, 2018

    Many of the occurancies characterized by Mr Shapiro are very familiar to me, having spent my formative years in the area. They bring back many memories. A varied life of losses and gains. Mildmay Mission Hospital was home from home for me!

  6. Bernie permalink
    December 3, 2018

    So much in common with my experiences!

    One small but striking feature that I have never seen before: the windows of Wheler House. They seem to have been able to open like normal sash windows, the upper half dropping down in front of the lower half, but also with a – to me unique ability – to tilt inwards for ventilation. Was that arrangement found in any other block of LCC flats?

  7. janet gordon permalink
    December 3, 2018

    wheler house was completed befor the second war my booba lived at no 2 she was partialy blind so my mum and dad went to live with her during the war i was born in 1945 and lived there with my mum dad and booba until i as 9 and then we moved to hughes mansions i went to deal st school

  8. December 3, 2018

    Great account of the old East End. Quaker Street and Wheler House have so many stories to tell. Good luck to Ben with his new life in the UK.

  9. December 3, 2018

    Thank you, as ever, for also including the amazing vintage photos. It was a privilege to hear
    Mr. Shapiro’s story today, and take a peek at his treasured archives.
    Reading this blog is my favorite way to begin my day, here in the Hudson River Valley in New York. The optimism and humanity fortify me all day long.
    Most appreciated! (PS — My car mechanic thoroughly enjoyed the story of
    the mechanics who work in the arches…….as he said: “for many reasons”.)
    Spitalfields Life is the gift that keeps on giving.

  10. Adele permalink
    December 3, 2018

    Wonderful account, Often dream about returning to the East End of old.

  11. Jean northern permalink
    December 3, 2018

    Loved that story so in interesting

  12. Delia Folkard permalink
    December 4, 2018

    It is so important for people like Benjamin to tell their incredible stories. How people like him survived to tell the tale never ceases to amaze me. Thenk you.

  13. Jane Jones permalink
    December 5, 2018

    What an amazing story of grit and survival, and the overwhelming impact of the 20C on one family alone. The East End is privileged to have Ben back.

  14. Richard permalink
    December 5, 2018

    Great story. Have a happy life back here.

  15. John Peavoy permalink
    May 8, 2021

    Hi Benjamin..

    A great article .. we are related my mum is your cousin .. her dad was eli David Rebecca David’s brother both children of Morris n yetta David

    Drop me a line if this email gets to you .. would love to converse

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