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Remembering Rose At The Golden Heart

October 29, 2013
by the gentle author

Rose

When Sandra Esqulant, celebrated landlady of The Golden Heart in Commercial St, saw this photo taken by Phil Maxwell of Rose sitting in her barroom twenty years ago – which is published in my Album - she told me the story of an unforgettable character who became one of her most loved regulars.

“I loved Rose. I don’t know what happened to her, she’s got to be dead now hasn’t she?

What happened was – you know how you fall in love with some people? – this woman appeared in the pub one day and I fell in love with her. I just liked her.

She asked for a rum & lemonade, and she never had to pay for a drink in my pub.

I used to have to warn everyone when Rose was coming in because she used to pick up everyone’s cigarettes and put them in her bag.

I used to dance with her.

You might think she was dumb, but she was the most astute person I ever met. She didn’t like my husband while I was there, but when I wasn’t there it was a different story!

My husband liked her a lot.

You know I lost my husband.

When she stopped coming, I went round to the Sally Army in Old Montague St, where she lived, but they told me they didn’t know what happened to her, so I went to the Police Station and they were going to search the morgue. I kept going back to the Sally Army and this Irish woman said to me, ‘Are you looking for Rose? She moved to Commercial Rd.’ So I went round to the Commercial Rd shelter and there was Rose. She was very sad because the Sally Army had put her out after forty years. So I used to send a cab to pick her up and take her back from my pub.

The Sally Army, they should have known how fond I was of her and told me where she had gone.

One Sunday, when I was on my own, she collected all the glasses and the ashtrays and the crisp packets and emptied them over the bar. I didn’t mind, Rose could do anything in my pub.

People like Rose would go into a pub and people wouldn’t serve them, but I had everyone in here – this was the dossers’ bar!

One day, Phil Maxwell asked Rose if he could put her in one of his films and she didn’t like that, but he set his camera on the table and took these pictures. And after that, he always had her picture in his exhibitions.

She must have known I was fond of her.

She did like me.

I know she liked me.

She was lovely.

She used to talk about her daughter, but I sometimes wonder if she ever had a daughter.

At Christmas, she always asked me for a Christmas box and, of course, I always gave her one.

They moved her out after forty years, what a thing to do to someone.

If Rose was here today, I’d let her smoke in my pub – I don’t care about the law.

Very special, she was.”

Photographs copyright © Phil Maxwell

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11 Responses leave one →
  1. October 29, 2013

    Dear Gentle Author,

    I look forward to reading your blog every night. Yes, night (well, actually 2am)- because I’m not in London- not even in the UK, but in the US, and though I’ve been to London, it’s been quite some time, and I don’t think that I’ve ever been to Spitalfields. However, your wonderful stories and photos make me feel like I’m there, and though I look forward to actually going in the near future, I think part of me will always prefer to see Spitalfields through your eyes! Thank-you so much.

    -Sarah

  2. Terry Basson permalink
    October 29, 2013

    There are people who have special gifts as in Edward Thomas’s poem old Jack Noman down the lane.

    At mid-day then along the lane
    Old Jack Noman appeared again,
    Jaunty and old, crooked and tall,
    And stopped and grinned at me over the wall,
    With a cowslip bunch in his button-hole
    And one in his cap. Who could say if his roll
    Came from flints in the road, the weather, or ale?
    He was welcome as the nightingale.
    Not an hour of the sun had been wasted on Jack.
    ‘I’ve got my Indian complexion back’
    Said he. He was tanned like a harvester,
    Like his short clay pipe, like the leaf and bur
    That clung to his coat from last night’s bed,
    Like the ploughland crumbling red.
    Fairer flowers were none on the earth
    Than his cowslips wet with the dew of their birth,
    Or fresher leaves than the cress in his basket.
    ‘Where did they come from, Jack?’ ‘Don’t ask it,
    And you’ll be told no lies.’ ‘Very well:
    Then I can’t buy.’ ‘I don’t want to sell.
    Take them and these flowers, too, free.
    Perhaps you have something to give me?
    Wait till next time. The better the day . . .
    The Lord couldn’t make a better, I say;
    If he could, he never has done.’
    So off went Jack with his roll-walk-run,
    Leaving his cresses from Oakshott rill
    And his cowslips from Wheatham hill.

  3. October 29, 2013

    I would have loved to know Rose. Wonderful story. Thanks c

  4. William Sovie permalink
    October 29, 2013

    This is what it’s all about, isn’t it? Giving some one a place to be themselves.
    Give them love and respect and kindness.
    You have a big heart Sandra Esqulant.

  5. October 29, 2013

    What an amazing character I would have loved to have met her. Where is she now I wonder? Still emptying crisp packet wrappers over the bar in another public house. It’s difficult to believe she left the comforts of the Golden Heart voluntarily; free rum and lemonade and other peoples fags what more could she want.

    Many thanks to Phil for capturing these wonderful images of her ensconced in her favorite seat, cigarette in hand, her face illuminated on one side by the sunlit window. I can sense the atmosphere, smell the smoke, hear the laughter. It’s the next best thing to actually being there.

  6. Albertstan permalink
    October 29, 2013

    Many of the old characters have been driven out of the Pubs. There are still a few to be found but they are few and far between. I would love to be able to photograph some of the old characters but I find it very difficult to approach them. I can go back nearly 40 years of visiting various Ale Houses and the change has been phenomenal. What is left is mainly characterless and void of personalities. Great blog. Thanks.

  7. Robert Green permalink
    October 29, 2013

    I remember ROSE, I sometimes use to see her walk past my stall in Club Row market, Sclater St on Sunday morning’s, I never actually spoke to her but I remember her being around, to be honest, I had forgotten all about her until I saw her photo on hear, sadly, she was part of a long list of old character’s that I no longer see in the market anymore, maybe soon, other people will be adding me on to that long list ?

  8. Gary permalink
    October 29, 2013

    They broke the mould after they made Sandra, A true East Ender
    Gary

  9. Moyra Peralta permalink
    October 29, 2013

    Heartwarming story…

  10. Gina permalink
    October 30, 2013

    I cried when I read this, I wish I’d met Rose. Sandra Esqulant saw the beauty in her as I see in Phil Maxwell’s photos. Sandra can’t find her now and suspects she’s passed away.
    My comment:-
    ‘If I must die
    I will encounter darkness as a bride,
    And hug it in mine arms’ (Shakespeare)

  11. Philip Marriage permalink
    November 7, 2013

    A touching story, told with affection.

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